You are a blesssed woman. And no, I never would intend that, no. There are those.. and that's why I wrote. "Even IF you are a selfish bastard of a man..." It was intended to be a little snarky...humorous...and get the attention of people who might not think that this topic affects them. I know men suffer. I am with a man right now who has been through hell with women in his life. Luckily, he has learned and grown and is quite resilient. We are happy as well. I also want to ask you to think about what countries are worse for women and what that means to you. I have lived in places that have had much better circumstances for woman than the US. But they were not developing nations. Women need their voices to be heard, no matter how angry they are. It's only right NOT to be told to turn it down. I pray more women will have what you have and appreciate it. We all deserve that, sister. Much love!