Yes and yet connection is what we all need in order to be healthy and balance. I am so sorry to hear about your experience. It’s so hard to know why people do what they do. Damn , it’s hard to know why we do what we do. You seem like a good and honest man. May you heal and find your happiness, inside yourself, then find a partner that mirrors that.
The principle of non attachment is a tricky thing to navigate. What does it really mean? I am still looking at it for how it applies in an integrated life..with children and life and work and…and…
Be well, dear man.