Yael, thank you for pointing out the truth that, while men created the system, it is hurting them greatly. My ex used to complain about the "femininization of the public school system". He was in school for like, 20 years getting his doctorate and precursors. He taught in high schools and now, makes his money (that I get none of) in admin at a local university. No matter, his complaints fell on deaf ears. I just couldn't hear it. Men made that system. They made the school systems, public and private. They made the healthcare BS system. They made it all. And...now they whine to US about it? But it's easier to whine that actually DO anything. Keep asking the questions. The answers will come, someday. We are on the same team, sister!