Yael,
I wonder a lot about this as well. I have a very open and easy-loving energy. People usually like me-unless they have jealousy issues. I love men and women alike, but get accused of flirting with men, even though I treat everyone the same. Men just take my attention differently. I am honestly trying to analyze and see how to be entirely safe being me with me who I am not interested in, sexually. It seems much more complex looking at reactions and results. People are so very starved for love and affection that the responses are often not what I would have wanted. Thus, making these relationships more and more difficult to navigate. Even though my words are clear, the energy of love and acceptance is confusing for men, often. Suggestions?