Totally with you. Being considered sexy is the most overrated quality a woman can possess. Sitting in court yesterday, to be a pretty woman was almost a determental things, I felt. I felt like maybe the judge would think I was useless, was just a pretty face, and didn't know the hard work of life. Of course, she would be wrong. But, I am grateful that is over and I can get back to helping myself heal.

Yeah, the girl in her 30's who is dating my 50 year old ex...she can have "sexy". I'm good.