This is so right on, again! I thought about my marriage of 27 years during this entire blog-read. He is a non-planner. Never planned a thing for us. Okay, once...25 year anniversary. No matter, he always wanted to just be spontaneous. And we had 4 kids, homeschooled, he went to school, worked and I worked evenings and weekends. Real life requires planning. Commitment requires planning. A family requires planning. I appreciate your unappreciation for these uncommitted and play-driven men. I believe there are a lot of women like this as well. I think he found one to hang out with.

Thanks again!!