There’s nothing more attractive than a man with a plan, a process, and self-confidence.

-so true! On the other hand, there is nothing more unattractive than a man who is a floater, a complainer, and plays the victim. Thank you for writing this. Outdated gender-role specific behavior is OUT and you did a great job naming the most important of them: make dinner, make time for her, do chores around the house and pick up your f#%*ing socks. Please! If I could gently add, answer the phone and text her back in a timely manner. These should be a given, but still so illusive in many long-term relationships. Thanks again!