That's a really big question. I lost my job 2 years into the divorce because my boss was a secual predator and I had to quit. But my ex and I both agreed on the divorce. I was tired of his unhappiness and wanted to get away from it and have a happy life. I knew he would be happier without the burden of a family. And I was right. I just didn't know he'd ruin our lives in the meantime. I had a great job at the beginning of the divorce or I never would have tried to leave. But I lost it and covid hit. And....life got impossibly difficult. Thanks for asking. My ex had a lot of narcissistic tendencies. And was emotionally and psychologically abusive and manipulative. I did not know how dangerous he was until I tried to get away.