Thanks. It does seem, however, that I am the only one who is living with consequences these days. 4 beautiful expensive ones...lol. My ex deserves to die alone, pathetic and sad. He has done literally everything he can to ruin our lives. And because he has no good counsel that he will hear, he likely has no idea what an A-hole he looks like to everyone outside his fan club. But my son's friends (who don't even hear about this stuff much) always have comments when I see them. He is not impressive.