Thanks for your response, Yael. I so wish there were a way our words could reach those who were vulnerable. Often, we are preaching to the choir, to women and men who have experienced the same things we have. It's good for everyone's healing journey, but I want to STOP this shit in a big way. I have this weakness for highly intelligent men. And I have paid a high price for it. somehow ethics and knowledge don't inhabit the same being. Ugh. Sorry it happened to you, too!