Thanks for writing about this twisted mess of an attempt at helping women...ever!
I feel like there is a lot to say about the masculine and feminine. And they are getting it all wrong. The way we embody both is the essential topic. Men need to do the same. To work with women is almost preaching to the choir, unless men are willing to see themselves as flawed and work on themselves at the same time. But even then, we are still calling them out to change and that is fucking exhausting. If men would only do their own work, then show up half-prepared for relationships...if only.
And yet, there are the few that do. Women are not perfect at this either. We need help, but not this kind of help, for sure! Thanks again!