Thank you for this. And thank you for being so brave and tackling this in therapy. You are very courageous. Having been the girlfriend to a man with BPD and married to a man with NPD, my view of normal has been worked over many a time. In some ways, it has been really good for me and has built a lot of compassion. But, in other ways it’s been really hard, having been sucked into the NPDs world. I appreciate your wisdom in this article!