Thank you! I like this very much. I have had only 2 real relationships in my whole life until now, and both were full of chemistry…very full. But, compatibility was low in both. We thought we had the common goals and dreams, habits, interests, etc., but our way of accomplishing things was so different it became destructive. Comfort level with regard to the greys of honesty and work ethic were also such important differences. Thanks for writing this. I hope it helps other people see where they are as well.