Susan, Thank you for sharing your thoughts about this. I am truly sorry for your loss of time, not being heard and understood. You are one among the throngs. Your words hit home, although I was not a letter writer. I think I just knew it wouldn't matter and any conversation around my feelings and vulnerability would come flying back at me like so many daggers. Blessings as you go forward. These are the times we are called to be very careful with our words and with our hearts.