Suffering under the weight of someone else’s demons…This I know well. As if I don’t have enough of my own to deal with. You are a brave woman. Thank you for being you, firstly, and then again for writing this for us. There is always a certain amount of validation we need as we are making our own personal decisions about what is best for us. I left my marriage for some of these exact reasons. I have no regrets because he would never have done it and remained in a miserable place for the rest of his life. What I hate is having to be the one-the one who says “enough”. My demons will suffice, thank you very much!