Living with the Ghost of Benevolent Patriarchy

…after all of these years

Photo by Adrien Olichon on Unsplash

Twenty-four hours before the signing of my newly-refinanced mortgage, I received a text from my father, my cosigner.

“I think this mortgage is a really bad idea. The rate is too high. I think you should let me just buy the house and you can pay me back. That will make things easier.”



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Christina Sophia

Christina Sophia


Exploring my relationship with myself, others and the gods of my childhood. Its all up for grabs. Feeling my way forward everyday.