Sometimes therapy is still not a safe enough place for women (or men, I expect). I know with my marriage, therapy made my now-ex rage. He was so angry when we left the session that I quit. I quit therapy and he told the world that I was the one who quit. he wasn't wrong. But it wasn't the whole story. His temper and his lack of commitment to change made it unsafe for me. So....what choice does a woman have? I am so sorry you are going through this and that it keeps. on. going! I hear you. Keep writing. It helps, I hope!