Omg you are funny. I got nothing from him. We dont have alimony here. No spousal support. No alimony. He studied for 20 years and my father and ii paid for 2 of his 3 degrees then I had to refinance the house to give him 35K for his doctorate that I didn't benefit from at all. So....I get that your experience might be different. But stop being one of those men who thinks they know everyone else's experiences. Women do it too. But really...this was abuse, neglect, and absolute rape when it came to getting what I deserved after almost 3 decades. And he wanted the divorce as much as I did.