Misty, thanks for the acknowledgement! And yes, I appreciate you taking the topic even further, divulging even more truths about being pretty. Safety is the real issue, to be honest, isn't it? Being noticed brings more issues with being safe. And it does seem that our attention has always meant what you say, "big boy take me home now..." My youngest is right now dealing with this. Do I give hugs to my guy friends or not? What does it mean to them...am I making life more difficult for them? I know we are just friends, but do they know that? Do they want more than that? It goes on and on and on.

Thanks again, sister!