Maybe not, but you hit the nail on the head, repeatedly! We hate being the nagging bitchy wife. We want a partner…a real partner. We don’t want to ask for him to show up for us. We are already showing up for him. We don’t want to raise more boys. I helped raise my mom’s 6 and I had one as well. But my ex…he will never grow u. He will never have to. After 27 years, he is living his dream with that very “cool girl". Much younger than him, and perfect for his midlife crisis as he attempts to leave us, his 4 children and myself with nothing. This would never happen if moms and dads would actually raise their boys, instead of coddle and enable them. It’s hard work. But, look at the consequences! Thanks for this!!