Maybe…but you need to look at what your wife did do. She is not in your life solely to make money. I see she has her education. But it’s impossible to find a good substitute for a mother. Maybe try being grateful she was even willing to stay home. Ever working mother I talk to says it’s far easier to go to work. Their husbands make it impossible for them to stay home anyway…as if being a mom isn’t the hardest job on the planet.