Maryam, I love your name. I wanted to comment on this question as well. I had a mentor once who changed my life in a really big way. We began like this during our meet-ups. It was fairly informal, our time together. But, in the end, the question, "But what is it really?" was so much more helpful than anything else. We "think" it is the thing that is on our mind. But in the end, its a sense, a feeling, or something similar that is motivating the current thing which is "top of mind." I really enjoyed reading this. Thanks for your work!!