lol. well, when you haven't ever had sex, you don't know. Being a virgin was a prerequisite to marrying in my culture.

And over time, people change. The lack of emotional connection and intimacy is the real culprit and sex is where things get awkward and frustrating. There was no talking about it with him. We wanted different things in the end. And...I was married for almost 3 decades. So, there were plenty of years of trying hard and making do.