Just held a live chat yesterday and talked about this very thing. Thanks, Yael, again. What I feel in myself around this is the failure of the masculine to be anything they promise to be. Having to dredge my own masculine up from my toes (because I, too, am incredibly feminine) is exhausting. I don't like it. I want a safe place as well...somewhere I can just be safe for once. And, in a perfect world, we would all offer the beauty of what we are and that would be enough. We wouldn't be tired out by trying to live in a world that was made for the aggressive and conquering, but be able to be seen as the collaborative, thoughtful, hard-working people we are. You are amazing.