It's all so good! I have, as well, been called this very thing and find it sooooo offensive. Thank you for writing about it. I heard the term DILF from one of my daughter's friends, referring to my ex-husband who does have one of those non-mother young girls spoken of in one of the comments. Yeah, insulting and shallow, so many are. I wish we would all try to raise the bar a little and then, we might just get somewhere.