I’m grateful for you introspection here. I’m especially grateful that you have looked closely at why things are as they are. I cannot imagine the pain. I am divorced from a man with a nondiagnosed personality disorder. The fact that he will not take responsibility for himself makes him unsafe…forever. I cannot, as a mother with sole custody, sit back and allow my children to continue to be taught lies by him. Both sides of tbe story are so sad and so wrong. My heart goes out to you. You are doing good work!