I'd LOVE another explanation. Men? Please!

But this is the one I know best as well. My now-ex and I worked through an entire dissolution of marriage until one day, out of nowhere, he decided he was going to ruin my life. And he definitely did his best. We owe them something...everything. And when we stop giving it to them, we are discarded as if they never cared about us in the first place. Which I find very, very confusing. Just a few days before, he was telling me he'd like to have me back. I don't think I'll ever understand what happened there. Men think they are logical and rational. But I've never seen it. I'd love to hear what other men think about this part of your blog!