I love this. However, this is a life that many of us do not live. I had decades of my life that I was the one cleaning people’s houses and cooking for other people. I had no money to pay someone else to do my home chores. As I waited the decades for my now ex to be done with school and find a job that MIGHT provide for us, I scrounged. I wish I could have relaxed like that. I make those choices now. But mine look more like taking a run and letting myself have a long bath. Not paying people to do home chores. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to do that. And my children help for free. It’s their home as well. I wish your situation were more realistic for the masses. But I thank you for your input!! And am super happy your wife saw your perspective. Beautiful!