I love the idea of this, but know that it is not true. The RIGHT man will not care about these things, but men, in general, do…especially care if you make more money than them, are better connected than them, are more active with their friends than them…Men, in my experience have been competitive and narcissistic. The man I am with right now would fit into your box well. It is a relief and a joy, but NOT the norm, by any means. It takes an introspective, emotionally mature man to fit inside that and as far as I can tell, that is NOT the norm by a very, very long shot. Such great thoughts though! May this be the norm someday. Thank you!