I look forward to that day! To embrace this freedom is a joy, to be sure. NOT to have to wake up to him everyday. NOT to have to listen to his victim stories. Goodness, yes! Thank you for the perspective. I am working with some good advisors in the meantime. I am sure they will help me to do the right thing. At least for now, I will be letting all of my resourcefullness and creativity serve myself and my children. I just wish things didn't have to be so difficult for us.