I like your enthusiasm. However, I’m a little skeptical. I do, however believer there are women like this. I’m 48, and unmarried for the first time in almost 30 years and so much more happy. I do want a committed relationship and I will not settle for something substandard. I’ve been through too much for that. I resonate with quite a bit of what you are saying…especially that they don’t want to be your side piece. That is shit. Just yesterday I walked into the local department store, noticing the eyes of a young 20 something man. I smiled at him, which is normal for me. However, after getting my cart and walking into the store, I noticed he was still looking at me. He was quite handsome. He said something to me…I didn’t hear him, so I said, “excuse me?” He then said, “you are beautiful”. This, I believe is what you are talking about. It wasn’t creepy, unlike normal. It was sweet.