I hear you, Mark. But, I don't see stoic. I see whiney. I see little boy-men who cannot get their shit together, and need moms. So few of them are connected to their feelings and people in healthy ways. It is something to celebrate when it happens for men and women, alike.
Most men have incredible sob stories. The #MeToo movement for men, often feels like a #PoorMe movement. I know you are doing good work and I appreciate your words, but I still feel quite confused about what a healthy man really looks like. Or, if they ever think they are really healthy. Best wishes to you!