I hear you loud and clear. Yours and my experience has been sadly similar. His value system is money and himself as well, but it took divorce to make that really clear. He didn’t fight at all for the kids, and the financial fight continues two years later. His best offer is 5K in my pocket…no house…no retirement…nothing. And I was the one who came into the marriage with the money and my family has put over 100K into our house and cars over the past 25 years. Male entitlement is a powerful trip. I am.still in this mess, but yes, faith and family are the glue that hold me together every day, all day. I am grateful for the core values my parents taught me as well. Thanks for this!!