I hear you loud and clear!

My brother in law told me that I "must have made one too many hot meals for him"...I must have spoiled him, is what he meant. And I did. three meals a day, ironed shirts, all bills accounted for, children cared for, and farm managed. All without him. But I HATED doing it all without him. I never wanted anything more than a partner. And I certainly never had one in him. Maybe someday...Thanks for this!