I had to laugh when I read your response. It was only after there was a threat to my husband that he started to pay attention. It was a percieved threat, not a real one. But, no matter, he showed up pretty well for me for a few months, going to the doctor with me once, and actually planning our 25th anniversary. He had never done either of these things. It would have been nice to get to the therapist about year 3 with him...lol!

And you are spot on with everything you have said here, btw!