I feel like I highlighted so much! I have thought a lot about this, too. I had no idea how much we absorbed until I saw a similar change in him. He is so weird! Honestly, we were conservative Christian, raised our kids that way...now he is a shaman, a reiki healer, a tarot card reader, and has his apartment decorated with all kinds of esoteric things that just creep out the kids. It's too much of a change and he is the most ungrounded person they have ever met. Much has changed on this side as well, but we are stable and still checking in with real life. Interesting how much anger they have when they realize (unconsciously) how much they needed us to stabilize them.