I can’t say how sad it makes me to completely be in agreement with you on this one. There is nothing else, in some circumstances to help us rewire our minds and give our bodies permission to release attachmen. It’s true. It’s not pleasant, nor is it even desirable, but necessary. Thos who do not understand have never been there or do not have the same needs. You and I must align there, good man. I never saw myself making that choice. But it totally empowered me to finally leave, after 25 years of toxic sludge being dumped on me. I’m grateful to have unloaded the shame around it. There never should have been shame in the first place. The only shame I feel now is around the fact that I betrayed myself and my dreams for so long and now I am reaping the consequences for the rest of my life. It’s what it is. Thank you!