I am so sorry. So often I see that we have nothing like the culture needed to support men actually doing their work. To blame others is their MO because they don’t have the tools to do otherwise. Women have been taught that having support and friends is good and acceptable. Often our friends are moms like us…or close enough to have intimate connection. I hope for a world where men can find that as well, allowing them to find the support they need to get vulnerable and become the men we need them to be….the men they thought they already were.