I agree with you. I see, in my generation and younger ones, girls who refuse to adult and find themselves in terrible relationships, repeatedly, not so different than males do. The difference, however, is that when a woman physically abuses a man, he is not under the same threat as when a man abuses a woman. And most of us, women, have had abuse in our history. We all need to learn how to communicate with some discretion and allow ourselves to feel pain without inflicting it on every single person around us. All genders need help and we need to heal together.