I agree on almost every point. I have been made ill by living in a world that has not allowed me to just settle into the very feminine way I was born to be. I always ached for a man who would be strong and protective, yet an equal and not threatening. A nice guy I don't know about. What I always wanted was a man who was sure of his vision, mission, and movement in the world, able to see past the nose on his face. I know a few of these men. All but two, I am related to. I am not sure, at this point, that it is really worth looking for anymore. Maybe they just show up somewhere, God willing? I appreciate your thorough response.