Happy Birthday anyway, Yael. I hear you, though. I cannot imagine having to share my birthday with anyone, or a holiday, for that matter. I felt really selfish just thinking about my birthday each year, all of the fond memories, cousins, presents, sleepovers, seriously good times. It bombed out after getting married, but a few years ago, I decided to start celebrating my own birthday by planning a trip each year. Yes, it was exhausting to plan and make it happen, but they are now good memories for my kids and I got to see things I wanted to see. Yellowstone, and lots of CO, for example. But, for someone to celebrate ME...and ME not have to do it, as an adult. That has yet to happen. No matter what, I still hope this for you. You deserve it. You deserve to have your needs met and your life filled with memories of being loved deeply. We all do, sister. Best to you!