Greater society is to blame. I am not blaming men. I am asking men to ask different questions and not assume they understand what is happening. When so many men just talk about their anxiety-ridden and depressed wives, call them names, bitches, and nags, I am asking them to look a little more deeply at what is happening. I will write more and try to be more clear. Greater society is to blame for so many problems. This is one that I have personal experience with. That's all.