Grateful for the stats. I like what you are getting to, here. It is so true that we need to be attracted to the person we are with...but what we view as attractive can change so much with getting to know a person. We love people who we allow ourselves to get close to. Yes, we may never feel attracted to them physically, but if we do, we do. If we don't, we don't. I also hear your pain in having to let go of someone because you just weren't attracted to them. That had to be really hard! You did the right thing, though. Thanks for your words!