Gareth, I hear you. I do believe that there are plenty of women out there looking for a YOU. We all hope to find a man who is actually honest with himself about who he is...and that is a rare find. Be brave, know your worth, and find her. She is waiting for you, too. I am sure of it. So many of us have been there, knowing there must be someone kind who can love us well. Because they learned to love themselves first.