Every single item here was me…4 years ago. During the divorce I ended up not being okay with sharing kids and got sole custody with no battle. He wanted his freedom more anyway. I made a joke last week at work about one of these…just about not being able to qrap my head around being with him anymore in the future. And I can say that because my boss os my friend who hated on my ex long before I knew who he really was. Great article. I hope lots of people read this and internalize!