Divorcing a narcissist has created the most destructive show of evil possible. The rage he used to have has now turned into the energy to destroy my life and our children's lives. I do not think he is even aware of what he is doing. I cannot think he does. But, he would not get help. He would never admit fault. He was unable to be honest with himself or me...his whole life was a story he made up. It's so hard. So hard!! Thanks for writing!