Dang, girl! You’ve got it right, here. Problem is… if you are not happy, if you do not like to smile, if you are not a nice person, if you are afraid to be natural… these don’t serve. I happen to think I am all of these things, which has helped me with my relationships my whole life. But I know people who are kind people who don’t smile and to smile would be unnatural. It is almost the survival of the fittest, eh?

I love your thoughts, but think some people might just feel a little screwed by their natural tendencies. I know my ex does. And perhaps he should. In the meantime, I’ll keep smiling and being genuinely happy because I have what I need inside me to choose that on a daily basis. I am one of the lucky ones..who knows how to do that.

Thanks again!