Amen!! I believe you when you say it's confusing. Some women are desperate. And we make so little money in our jobs that we must find other ways to survive. If there were no market the service would not be needed. But, on the other hand, I find myself feeling that the women who strip in clubs and participate in porn are selling out, defining the name Woman, and causing us, as women to continue our pattern of being objects of oppression. Complex stuff, my friend.