Ali, I'm sorry you saw that in my words. I Didn't mean that at all. I live in a small town where most women have children and never grow up. THat's why i said motherhood is an invitation, every day. It doesn't enforce it, but its an option. And my friends without kids...they are often teachers and I am so appreciative of the energy they have for children who desperately need them. Please forgive me for saying that all wrong. But, I never ever want to pit women against women. Men have always had the option of growing up. And some never do, either. We are just people. And we can refuse the joys of life all the same. Thank you for your work. I appreciate your sacrifice and dedication very much.